So, I’ve been debating on whether to share this story or not. Part of me is happy; but another part of me – well, I’m actually kinda embarrassed.
You see, Teo has learned a new word….
I mean, he only has about 10 words that he says regularly. So he is learning a new word and using it correctly should be something to cheer and dance and celebrate about, right. Here’s where the dilemma comes in… see, the word he has learned is well, well, it’s not necessarily a word we want our kids saying….
So what do I do? We’ve spent countless hours/years doing speech therapy. We’ve been working hard, especially now with the help of Project Speech and their parent coaching program, on expanding Mateo’s ability to communicate using a speech app. Even with that, we still always try to encourage speech. So after all this, I don’t want to tell my child, “No! Don’t say that” when for years we prayed and prayed for words.
And really, he is using it appropriately too – which honestly, impresses me. I mean, we say, “Mateo, no more Oreos. “ He immediately answers, “F*&k”. I say, “No Mateo, we can’t go on a boat right now.” He responds., “F&%k”. Clearly too!
I can tell you guys, Grandma was not too impressed to hear about this new word. And I’m sure other adults who might hear him will not be impressed either. Seriously, which parent would be happy to hear their son cuss – I mean, except for me that is.
Honestly, I put the blame completely on COVID-19 and puberty. My son has been home with me for almost an entire year now. What else can you expect? If we want him to do better – then please, please, please let’s open schools – like tomorrow!
So bottom line is, I don’t know whether to celebrate or hide in shame. And I’m honestly not sure what to do when he says it. Or how to get him to stop??? I have never ever had to tell him not to speak or say something before. That’s not an issue we’ve ever had to face- LOL. Honestly, guys, please no judgement. I’m still learning and trying to navigate the many twists and turns and ups and downs of raising Teo.
